One of the many horse professionals that I enjoy learning from online is Barbra Schulte. I find her positive outlook on horses, riding and competition so inviting.
I referenced her in a previous post at
For today’s post, I share her words that appeared in one of her recent “Just For Today” emails.
“I think about the people in my horse world who inspire me.
I am so grateful for them.
Today, I realize that I too inspire others.
This makes me feel good.
It doesn’t have to be a big deal, just a smile or a kind word or a compliment about their horse.
And I will never know how I encourage someone else by never giving up, succeeding, and just being me – as I am.
I love knowing we all help each other in ways we will never know!”By Barbra Schulte in her Just For Today Email Dated 8/16/21
Pursuing our horsemanship goals can bring out the Type A personality hidden (or maybe not so hidden) in some of us. This can lead to noticing every thing wrong about our own horsemanship and that of others.
Sure, in order to improve, it is helpful to notice and acknowledge what needs to change. But there’s a difference between that kind of awareness verses dwelling on the negative. It can be a delicate balancing act of perspectives as we seek to learn and grow our skills.
I like this reminder from Barbra Schule that we all have the power to look for the inspiration we gain from others. Barbra also shows us that sometimes just being ourselves, in all our human messiness and contradiction, allows us to connect with others in a way that a “perfect” version of ourselves never could. How refreshing is that!